Archive for April 2006
Trust issues…
Adamant needs and stubborn needs of adamant people are always subjected to questioning by their counnterparts …..yep its like stating true is true but nevertheless i would like to state it again and again and as frequently as the need arises.It is the stating of obvious that we have forgotten ,by stating 5=5 we are aware about 5.
Recent chain of events forces me to believe an idea. Stating that even the smallest of words, gestures even, are very helpful in communicating an already established trust is stating the obvious. Who do we trust, is a question, is a very wrong question that is asked , atleast i believe that it is wrong. Trust being the function of circumstances is my new perspectiv on this topic. People enclose themselves , they stand on the verge of paranoia, they never rest untill they comprehend or control whatever bothered them.
The “fragile” system of trust that man has lived on is the only thing stopping people from eating people alive !!! and this has sustained us for what..so many thousands of years !!
Then my question is , how can trust be fragile if it has been there for so long?? There must be something very very wrong somewhere else.
What can be so wrong that a group living together almost as a family can be so easily polarised. How can a seemingly alien bunch of people , who have no idea about how the family functions and what they treasure the most , scatter the family apart in a matter of SEVEN days !!!
Myself as a very late realiser and acceptor of the family , and being of a neutral viewer , find this as a very disturbing fact of life. Although i am not involved in these proceedings but i do admit that they have caused a stir of emotions in my head. It will be a gross understatement to say that the members of this family who know what treasure they have are in shambles over it.
Why and not how is the question to be asked…..
TRUST anyone …… maybe later !
Recent chain of events forces me to believe an idea. Stating that even the smallest of words, gestures even, are very helpful in communicating an already established trust is stating the obvious. Who do we trust, is a question, is a very wrong question that is asked , atleast i believe that it is wrong. Trust being the function of circumstances is my new perspectiv on this topic. People enclose themselves , they stand on the verge of paranoia, they never rest untill they comprehend or control whatever bothered them.
The “fragile” system of trust that man has lived on is the only thing stopping people from eating people alive !!! and this has sustained us for what..so many thousands of years !!
Then my question is , how can trust be fragile if it has been there for so long?? There must be something very very wrong somewhere else.
What can be so wrong that a group living together almost as a family can be so easily polarised. How can a seemingly alien bunch of people , who have no idea about how the family functions and what they treasure the most , scatter the family apart in a matter of SEVEN days !!!
Myself as a very late realiser and acceptor of the family , and being of a neutral viewer , find this as a very disturbing fact of life. Although i am not involved in these proceedings but i do admit that they have caused a stir of emotions in my head. It will be a gross understatement to say that the members of this family who know what treasure they have are in shambles over it.
Why and not how is the question to be asked…..
TRUST anyone …… maybe later !
